The Ball Reminder

If your partner tells you something vulnerable, your job is to imagine they threw you a ball.

Reach out and catch it.

Talk about the ball.

Not your reaction to it.

This is a valuable skill, one that goes against most people’s ability to squash their defensive reaction.

It takes practice.

It is a skill worth cultivating in a loving relationship.


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